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Jan 23
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Good morning my friends in Wiki land. I have been absent this week as things are now escalating out of control!
I have had many tears today and they are for my fears!
The only two words I can now use to describe my STBX are:-
pure evil!
Give me the strength my friends to get through this next week at least....and patti.p if you can spread some of that karma it would be most appreciated!
Have a good day, each and every one of you!
Take care for now FoS x
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scaryclairie
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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Dear dear Flower I wish you all the strength in the world. I was worried that you weren't around but I hadn't wanted to badger you - I know that you know where I am if you need me. So again - all the strength in the world - you are a remarkable generous lady who is getting wiser by the day. You are in the right and he is very much in the wrong. Hang on. x |
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Mitchum
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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Stay strong and remember you have the interests of your children in the very core of your being. It's very hard being brave all the time so a few tears are allowed!!! Be hard on the other side, not on yourself. We're willing you through this and I send all the positive vibes and good wishes I can transmit. Karma may take some time getting there but it will get through one day. The biggest hug for being so brave!!!! Mitchum xox |
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jjones123
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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For a while I thought to myself, 'what on earth has happened to my wife?' I wanted to say, 'I don't know what on earth you've done with her, but I cannot help that you've kidnapped my wife and have replaced her with some weird emotionless android who is wired up to say the craziest and most unhuman things'. It just didn't seem right! So, yes, I understand your view that they can become pure evil. How did this happen? Perhaps their bodies remain but their brains have been abducted. We're the sane ones, since we're trying to make sense of anything: they don't bother, they just react. More fool them. If you're a good person (and you certainly are), then karma exists. Hugs, JJ x |
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ascatfish
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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They all turn evil. and most turn Psycho. What they hell happens to them I ahve no idea. It really is the strangest thing, to see a person you have loved and lived with for X years be someone you do not recognise at all. I've only seen flickers of the person I knew since he left. Just flickers. he told me that my husband is dead. Well the creature that replaced him is not a person i want to know - he's cold calculating, unloveable, unlikeable, mean spirited, aggressive... i could go on. I wish you all the strength in the world to battle on and come through the other side xx | |
CNB
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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FoS, Karma will do her work when the time is right. In the meantime stay strong, keep going, believe in yourself and give yourself a pat on the back for every small achievement, safe in the knowledge one day karma will catch up with him. TBH, I think karma might be busy with a lot of wikis stbx's. Maybe we should have a wiki whiparound for a holiday for her? CNB x |
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debbiedoodaa
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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You will look back on this at some point in the future as a memory and pat yourself on the back for getting through it all. Stay strong and look to the future  |
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robinson25
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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dear fos just stay strong, this will be a distant memory one day. concentrate on yourself and the kids, try not to get too stressed about the x, took me a long time to get there but i know stressing about the x is a waste of my time and energy,. (hugs) hope you have a better day todayx | |
patti.p
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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FoS, Sending you hugs, you great lady (()). Tbh, I couldn't say it any better than CNB... I mean, I know karma has her hands full just dealing with us, we need to support her! Maybe I will bake her a cake and leave it on the doorstep for her xx I know one day what you are going through will be a memory, you will be stronger for it, we will all still care as we do, and he will be none the wiser. I don't know what it is that makes them all turn evil, mean, nasty, arrogant, but they do. I once asked my Sis why my stbx was doing what he was, & she said "because he likes to see you suffer". Maybe that's what it is, some of them change into playground bullies as they lack the depth that is required of "real" adults. Certainly doing what they have done to us isn't what a responsible, self actualised person would do, who knows. Remember, you WILL get through this. You have your children & wiki & you are made of sterner stuff than him! I know it's easier said than done, but just try to get through. We are all behind you and are giving you strength xx It is a waste of your precious time and energy to stress over someone who is not worth what is commonly found on the bottom of a shoe. In the end, he will get his own ... but you know that karma has patience, even if we dont want her to. Thinking if you FoS, please take care x |
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Patrick1968
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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No such thing as karma. Don't bring a knife to a gun-fight, if he is doing it to you do it back...but worse. Robinson's right it will be a memory one day but you've got to get into the fight. Play Welcome To The Jungle by GnR on 11 then get stuck into the tool. | |
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