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Jan 22
2012
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spying on my ex !Posted by raybird in his new woman, affairs and cheating |
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hello me again i need a rant tonight..... i joined facebook a few days back, to catch up with old friends and i must admit ive enjoyed it very much, had quite a few blasts from the past. i thought i would take a look at my exs page. im glad i did, i found out what a complete and utter lier he is. he told me when he left on the 12th december he had depression and stress, he knew i had been married to a man who suffered from chronic depression, so much so he took his own life.
turns out the ex has hooked up with an old school friend, the p...k !! i no her name, where she lives, she has a daughter the same age as his, yesterday she was classed as other, today as family. shes met his best mate, his son, they go out a lot. but hes told me he cant even buy our dog some food because hes so skint ! i hate him so much right now, for all the lies, the deceit, did they sleep together while he slept with me ? should i get an std test just in case ? i hope they both end up bloody miserable and both can rot in hell.
rant for today over
raybid x x x
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ascotiel
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| January 23, 2012 | ||
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I would say get an STD test to be sure - for your peace of mind. if you asked him there is no guarantee he will tell you the truth. Its horrible finding out, but if you ahve the strength block him now on facebook and block her, because otherwise you will keep looking and it will break you up. If you have a close friend who can take screen grabs of any evidence re him spending money or indeed of his adultery then get them to do that and hang on to it for you until such time as you need it. But don;t keep looking because it tears you apart inside. I know. I;ve been there. xx | |
raybird
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| January 23, 2012 | ||
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thank you, my friends daughter has offered to keep a check, photos etc of their facebook going ons, i wont look any more i found out what i had to, what i guessed was going on. |
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scaryclairie
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| January 23, 2012 | ||
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It hurts so much and you've been through so much already. Good plan to have someone else gather evidence. Does anybody (except me!) tell the truth and have scruples any more? | |
patti.p
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| January 24, 2012 | ||
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Raybird, I would get an std test & then be prepared for anything... In 2009 I snooped & found my stbx was cheating with THREE women, had 4 separate email accounts, was texting them about 300 times a month each, spent £20 a month on a dating website, had dinner and drinks with them, bough another mobile phone, etc. I found out about this latest "final" one cos of snooping as well. I have a lot of self loathing because of that, before him I trusted and was trustworthy. But things change and people we marry change. It used to make me sick, so please just remember that nothing is worth your health. These pri@ks (cos you are right, that is what they are) will do ANYTHING to save their skin, be deceitful, try to appear the tortured soul. That isnt to say that your Ex didnt have real issues, just that people of a certain type are good at manipulating a situation to have it appear that they are the only ones suffering. They will never, ever be honest with themselves or with you, so please be careful & don't let it bother you too much. I would have someone gather info so you know if there is anything that would endanger you, but I would be prepared for anything. I wanted to know the truth but it hass torn me apart too. Please just don't let it upset you too much xx |
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