So here I am on my way back form London having met lots of wikifolks last night and the attending a food show today.  Ate too much at both events.

thanks to everyone who contributed to lastnights get together in London, especially Sarah who did all the hard work - hope you managed to enjoy the evening sarah, nice shoes by the way.  Didn't get a chance to comment last night!! 

 It was interesting to hear all the plans that there are for the site and i hope it will now help us all even more.  there are so many genuinely helpful people here it is great to have had an opportunity to meet a few and

No time to be on here at all really.  Grabbing time when possible but many people to ring tonight after the first Cafcass meeting today.

Meeting not so bad, stbx got very excitable, emotional and specific in her comments about me.   I could see the cafcass officer looking quite surprised at times and despite him trying to tell her what was required etc I am not sure she took it in.

 Anyway good comments that I took from it were that courts do not want to impose orders and prefer to approve personal arrangements - what I have been telling her since Feb.  They prefer joint arrangements if

My blogging is getting less frequent, about once a week now.  Not that less is happening, just I am finding less opportunity to be on here.

So far this week we have had an argument about opening a door, me bringing some work home, who should walk the dog, why the children don't want cold chicken for tea, she standing over me while I take a call from my employer at 7pm telling me I am only paid to 5pm.  And to cap things off she locked me out on one night as I left to calm myself down.

In hindsight all pretty sad and laughable but when you are wrapped up in it it's a nightmare.

The children are