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Mar 30
2008
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RollercoasterPosted by chester in dealing with emotions |
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Gosh when you read that your emotions will be a rollercoaster then your all not wrong.
One day I am angry hate him for throwing away our life, dreams and plans. He gave up without a fight and i hate and miss him at the same time. can't believe what i put up with over the last few months. Seems so obvious that he was having an affair - hindsight a wonderful thing!
Then the next day
positive, looking forward to meeting new people doing what i want to do, and making my own plans.
Then back to square one can't stop crying, sick of talking about it.
Guess just have to take one day at a time and enjoy the good and positive when they come.
Glad i have this forum, and a way to try and make sense of it all.
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Donnylass
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| March 31, 2008 | ||
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I'm with you on these feelings chester! Give me a day at Alton Towers over this anyday tho!  |
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chester
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| March 31, 2008 | ||
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funy that donny i was planning a trip there this sumer x lol | |
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mike62
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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Chester, It really DOES get better, but not as quickly as we would like. It is very good that you can see the pattern of your emotions - now is not the best time to take serious decisions! It will all settle down soon. See you at Alton Towers! Mike |
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Elizabeth
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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I can so much relate to your feelings of "pendulum swinging" emotions!! Exactly same with me, I think though when I really look at it I am "in love" with the past we had at one stage. The emotions settle down, but as Mike said it does take time... Have a nice time at Alton Towers?!! |
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denmanra
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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chester, one day at a time, but look forwards not backwards. take it easy Ricky. |
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Denise
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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Just when you think you are getting there something knocks you right back on the ride - never quite expecting to still hit the lows. It does get better thank god, and the lows start to kick in less. Good friends, good wine and good music help. | |
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marriaa
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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the trouble is we take life too seriously,I am sure we should let the child in us out more often,enjoy your trip to alton towers.One day when things settles down ,you will wonder how you managed with your previous life style,it can only get better | |
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Anuska
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| April 02, 2008 | ||
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Rollercoaster. In a way it's good you feel that way. That's what makes you human and a caring person. Hopefully soon the positives will be stronger than the negatives. And it will be. As to hindsight no one has that when confronting some one who is capable of doing something you're not. That makes you a better person. Keep concentrating on being positive. Anuska  |
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