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Mar 29
2008
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MY WHOLE STORY XPosted by xXNIKKI07Xx in my story |
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My story is i was the one that finally got the strenth to leave my so called wonderfull relationship, and to many people it was perfect a man who loves you and works hard with a good job and we had a beautiful house , decorated and furnished very well but the pair of us!! We started of with my ex simply moving into my private rented home that i had with my then 4yr old daughter. I had all the furnishings needed so it was just a case of him pack a few clothes from his mums then move in....It took about 8 months for the mask 2 fall and cracks to appear in the relationship but he was oblivious to all as it was me who he managed to slowly control, Bit by bit removing any choices i had to anything ,finding ways to make me going anywhere with my friends more hasstle than it was worth..I think thats how i had my first panic attack due to him picking and causing bad shouting matches making me re think my plans and eventually stop having any....Every weekend we had lovely trips to his parents house and then home my family lived 25miles away but were never mentioned to visit..( i could not drive and by this point sort of settled for security in a roof over my head for myself and my daughter which was less likely to be taken away as my ex did offer a slight financial support and i needed it.....Then the little things turned out worse as in the effort he made with my daughter vanished and the only communication he gave her was via me..(telling me what naughty stuff she had done and i mean everything but going on and on so it made me make it an issue it wasnt as she was just 4yrs old and happy.................continued later x x
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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Hi Nikki Your ex doesn't sound very nice at all. [removed]void(0); grin I hope you manage to sort out things for you and your daughter. I am doing everything to support my children as we separate and no doubt divorce in due course. I have started writing a blog and it is really refreshing to let it out. It surprises me how many read all this, you will be helping others as well as you by sharing your problems. Goodluck. Alan |
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