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Mar 26
2008
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My bubble has burstPosted by Sanctuary in dealing with emotions |
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I rang "him" my husband because a water bill came. I didn't think he'd tlk but he did. Thats when my bubble burst he told me tht he is in a relationship with someone tht we both know, Then he had the audacity to frigging tell me tht he wasn't sure if his new relationship was going to work. Like what the heck, do I really want to know or care & surely he isn't wanting me to wait around to find out or to take him back.
He went crazy at me because the CSA are taking £150pw frm his wages, Do I feel gulity about tht NO! myb he should of paid me summit then the CSA wouldn't of stung him.
I have made the first appointment at the solicitors today, I go april 9th at 10.30 i'm scared & frightened to be honest. I couldn't even make the damn fone call without crying. I feel such a fool
Yesterday I was feeling on top of this world & today I have had a crash landing back down to reality & now the prospects of divorce finding a job all feels to much. I'm really hurt & upset today
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denmanra
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| March 27, 2008 | ||
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from fright comes stregnth sanc, the rerality is not the negative side but the fact you are becoming positive, yes you will get moments of despair its part of the process, but believe that you can gain control, its your life no one elses take it easy ricky |
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megan
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| March 27, 2008 | ||
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Yes that's how it is. I had the same story. When your up you think your getting your head sorted. When your down you think your never going to feel "normal". Count the gaps between the down days and they get bigger. The good days will out number the bad, but sometimes a downer sneaks in just to keep you on your toes. Look after yourself |
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mongmong99
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| March 28, 2008 | ||
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Hang in there, sanc. It's one hell of a blow, but you will pick yourself up in time. | |
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marriaa
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| March 29, 2008 | ||
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ther will be down days,but as time goes on the ups will be more than the down.I will tell you a little story-One of my friend was married ,her husband left her when her daughter was very little.She ended up doing three jobs to survive,one of them was a cleaner.But now she has remarried to a doctor ,who adores her and her child,she drives a big ,expensive car,she has a cleaner to help her.What about her x-well he went with a girl much younger than him-she runhim dry and now that have split up,and to the daughter her stepdad is her father,he even payed for her to go to private school.It can work out very well,just be positive.good luck |
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Donnylass
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| April 01, 2008 | ||
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Good luck at the sols. When I went the 1st time, I took my sister with me for support ( I didn't want to waste time money by crying all the time) wrote down all the concerns q's I had as I knew my mind would go blank- it did!! I'm sure you will get thru.  |
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