Re:Why mess with my head?

Thank you Dazed. Love your reply and I think we were married to the same man. The bit about your ex introducing the OW to his family and the following sentences are like you are talkikng about my ex. I cant believe it's true, but we are all married to the same male. How crazy is that!
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Thanx Marshy, you're right, of course and in fact I just wrote him yesterday telling him I was no longer going to waste my energy trying to sabotage his relationship and that it would be more satisfying to watch him do that himself. I've not heard back from him! Imagine that! I sent him a childish text on NYE saying 'I hope her f***y drops out and your c**k rots off and that 2012 brings you everything you both deserve'. He took her away for New Year. Shame the plane didn;t crash. x

LOL I'm sorry but that really did just make me laugh out loud!! What a shame the plane didn't crash like you say.

I think it's what someone said - the whole world revolves around them and they don't want to see you getting on with your life.

I chucked my ex out in July after finding numerous texts arranging sex dates, talk of previous sexual meetings and membership to a dating site. He spent 5 months asking to come back. The last time he asked was 2nd December. He was going out on his Christmas do that night. Since then, nothing except the odd comment. Anyway the hilarious thing is the following weekend he had the kids and took them to a girl from works house, my daughter comes back saying 'I think xxxx is daddy's girlfriend, we had lunch and dinner there and they had photos of each other up in their houses' Now she can get carried away but obviously it's something. So the week after he last asked me to have him back, he introduces them to another woman and her kids!!! WTF?!??!

I've given up caring, he can do as he pleases, I'm just going to concentrate on myself.

It really depends how deep your feelings go and whether you think you can move forwards, but I have always believed once a cheat always a cheat which is why no-one would ever do it to me more than once. My dad did it to my mum 3 times, she always said she wished she'd left him the first time.

Good luck x

Thanx Lozza21. Yours sounds like a pr**k too! I wont take him back, not no way, not no how! He can carry on looking like the sad owner of a mail order bride and live out the rest of his life riddled with regret. He's NMP anymore!
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snailywaily wrote:
Thanx Marshy, you're right, of course and in fact I just wrote him yesterday telling him I was no longer going to waste my energy trying to sabotage his relationship and that it would be more satisfying to watch him do that himself. I've not heard back from him! Imagine that! I sent him a childish text on NYE saying 'I hope her f***y drops out and your c**k rots off and that 2012 brings you everything you both deserve'. He took her away for New Year. Shame the plane didn;t crash. x

Lovin it Careful what U wish for and yet again, you never know. I didnt think it was childish at all. It was smack on the money from where I am sitting. Good on ya girl. C.

Marshy_ wrote:
snailywaily wrote:
Thanx Marshy, you're right, of course and in fact I just wrote him yesterday telling him I was no longer going to waste my energy trying to sabotage his relationship and that it would be more satisfying to watch him do that himself. I've not heard back from him! Imagine that! I sent him a childish text on NYE saying 'I hope her f***y drops out and your c**k rots off and that 2012 brings you everything you both deserve'. He took her away for New Year. Shame the plane didn;t crash. x

Lovin it Careful what U wish for and yet again, you never know. I didnt think it was childish at all. It was smack on the money from where I am sitting. Good on ya girl. C.

Thanx C