Re:Confused

SushiG, Be true to yourself and enjoy the company. Just make sure you are being honest to him so he knows where you are in the divorce process and explain that you are not technically available. This way if he does apply pressure on you, you can always backoff and say you want to progress the relationship but you are not ready yet to take the next step.
Overall, just enjoy the company and give yourself a break. Life is too short, and only you will know when things are right to go forward. If you want further reading, Francine Kaye, The Divorce Doctor, has a chapter at the end for moving on and covers dating - it's worth a read and not very expensive to buy.
Good Luck and don't forget that you are allowed to relax as they say divorce is the most stressful time in your life second to breavement.
Supercali xx

Hey sushi,

I am in two minds. From a personal perspective, starting the next relationship just has not crossed my mind. Yet, were I to find myself where you are at, I would have the same confusions.

I can only say as the others have - be honest to yourself and be honest to him. Especially if you are only part way through the process, as there is likely a whole lot more emotional trauma to be covered.

That being said - you are only here once - you do not get a practice run! So at the end of the day, honesty is the best policy (true in many aspects of life)!

Good Luck.

Thanks everyone. I was a bit too premature in the end, lol He hasn't asked me out again nor has anyone else. I'm just going to step back and see how life goes. I'm not actively looking for someone new but if someone came along I would definately follow the advice to take things very slowly.

Thanks again