I now have established overnight
contact for alternate
weekends and some of the holidays. This now amounts to over the 52 night
threshold.
Can i reduce the maintainance automatically(CO says
can be reduced iaw CSA calculation) or have i to go through the court to
reduce it. I would like to approach ex but she will be very defensive about
it. I need the money to have days outwith the kids. Ex has bled me dry and
i am struggling financially. Know she will object and might stop
overnight. Going the mediation/court route at the moment and she is
starting to be a bit more flexible as I think she realises the inevitable
but will kepp overnight to maximise the maintainance, i dont
object to maintainance but the boys need to have a life with
their father and not just the free museums all the time, love spending time
with the kids but want to do more if finances allow, Any advice please.