Well have not been very active on here for a while, but thought I would
share with all, that It has been a very very tough year and I am so pleased
that it is now all over. I must say that in all my life this is the best
website I have ever ever come across, just reading through what other
people are going through makes you realise that maybe your own life is not
so bad, so thanks to all out there and if I can get through it anyone can.
I had been waiting to hear from sols re my
absolute and had heard nothing, so after speaking to my
mum this morning and tellng her that I had a dream about my ex(not stbx)
last night that I was going to ring the court, she advised just wait, but I
had such a feeling that I called the court and I found out I have been
divorced since the 10th Jan!!!. I would like to stress to all starting out
on this horrific journey that believe me it does get better, there will be
bumps and twists along the way as I know at times I felt like what was the
point of going on but, here I still am, about to go away tomorrow for a
girly weekend in spain. So once again stick in there and hopefully there
is a better(if different) life out there for us all. Fingers crossed.