And breathe....

So, almost 3 years on... Im finally free to move on with my life. Divorce sorted, consent order finally approved! Financially, I could have carried on fighting him but what's the point. I have a roof over mine and my girls heads, more importantly, I have the girls love and respect.

My parting words, divorce IS horrible, even when you were the one who initiated it, but it's only temporary, a mere blip in your life. Cry when you need to, shout, scream, kick the wall if it all helps. But I promise you, if you smile, accept the changes you're going through and if you believe in yourself and your ability to love/be loved, you will survive. You will truly be happy again, perhaps in ways you never were before.

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Thank you for updating us, Toto - wishing you all the very best in your new life

What a great post - good luck in your new status x

Thanks for the nice post. It helps to see people come through the other side!

Thank you for this post, as a newbie it is really great to have yet more proof there is life after the X.

What a great post Toto....wishing you a wonderful future!

Feel happy for you