consent order im really worried please HELP!

firstly let me apologiese if this has been raised before and for my spellin,
brief out line of the marriage she was a aggressive gold digger, who if didnt get her own way cried till she did, or get aggressive till she did, didnt really contribute to anything finacially, when she left i had a legal seperation order drawn up that she signed and she was paid out in full, she was entitled to nothing as she brought nothing as i already had a house and after 2 years she left with 12,000 my solictor wanted me to give her nothing but i thought she deserved something so it was drawn up and she got paid out, she has since gone on to spend all the money and is living a room share and is unemployed
i hsve since gone on to better my self in the 3 years she has been gone, this is my worry with the wording over this consent order, that she might be tryin to get more?

this is what the letter says
on march 1st 2010 decree nisi was pronounced by judge with decree absolute to be applied for from the 14th april. this is the final decree which will dissolove the marriage.

although we have recieved no financial disclosure from you, we are insrtucted by our client that there are no financial issues between yourselves what soever. we have instructions from out client(her) to propose that a consent order is prepared for submission tot he court for approval. the terms of that proposed order will provide a clean break bewtween our client and yourself and your respective claims arising from the marriage would be formally dismissed. we enclose a draft consent application reflecting those terms

there is also a statement of information for a consent order which provideds the court with details of both parties means

right whats buggin me is
i have to disclose my earning to the court which have gone up alot in the last 3 years
how much my house is worth, and as i now own 2 this is quiet high as well and on the form she will be putting zeros next to capital resources, net income will be the dole what ever that is and pension will be zero this is gonna make me look very well off and her the excact oppersite. The sentance 'we have instructions from our client to propose a consent order to give to the court' why has she done this?? she doesnt have anything for me to go back for?
and 'respective claims from the marriage would be formally dismissed'
that last sentance to me reads in my eyes the seperation order will be dismissed and she will be allowed to claim for more
i hope this is understandable to people as it baffles the hell outa me this jargin
and the statement of infromation for a consent order scares me!
the court is grantin the absolute from the 14 april surely thats not the point he says okay miss b is intitled to x? this should have all been done b4?
hope someone can help and put my mind at rest as its taken me along time and alot of hard work to build what ive got, and i couldnt get it back if i lost it, she had her chance with the money she had to start again, buy her self a house but she left work and it was wasted on drink drugs and cars.
thanks all

Benny

I don't know what went on in your marriage but you are assuming that your stbx is out to sting you for all she can get. Chill out she is doing exactly what you want her to - Her solicitor is proposing the same as you, just with posh words.

although we have recieved no financial disclosure from you, we are insrtucted by our client that there are no financial issues between yourselves what soever.
Well you don't have any issues cos you've sorted them, right?

we have instructions from out client(her) to propose that a consent order is prepared for submission tot he court for approval.
A consent order is the document you both sign to show the court that you both accept that finances are sorted once and for all.

the terms of that proposed order will provide a clean break bewtween our client and yourself and your respective claims arising from the marriage would be formally dismissed.
No going back with your begging bowl cos she's won the lottery, or vice versa.

we enclose a draft consent application reflecting those terms

So you dig out the paperwork from your solicitor regarding the Separation Agreement, and the receipt for the 12 grand and make sure this is mentioned in the agreement, and that she accepted this in full and final settlement having taken legal advice.

Get your sols to check it out before you sign it.

cheers this is what im thinking, but still very nervy of course, also crossed my mind that as shes on legal aid the solicitors are gettin as much work out of her as possible to make more money? but still need to get legal advise just to be sure get them to look over this, to make sure im not signing away my lifes hard work!
thank you so much x