I agree with Dukey, don't panic.
A McKenzie Friend is a
layperson who can help take notes etc. They aren't usually legally trained
and they aren't insured so you can't sue them for negligence if things go
drastically wrong. Having said that sometimes someone with legal knowledge
acts as a MF and some MFs are very good. The first MF was an Australian
lawyer who was sent along to court to help MeKenzie. MFs have no
automatic right to speak for you, although a judge might be prepared for
them to speak on your behalf if it's deemed helpful. Court guidance
here;
http://www.barcouncil.org.uk/guidance/PresidentofFamilyDivisi
onsGuidanceonMcKenzieFriends/Usually the applicant prepares
the court bundle or if the applicant is a litigant in person the solicitor
for the respondent does it. Practice
directions for court bundles are here;
http://www.justice.gov.uk/guidance/courts-and-tribunals/court
s/procedure-rules/family/
practice_directions/pd_part_27a.htmIf you don't feel
confident and the issues are complicated instructing a
barrister directly is an option if you can find one
that does direct access work. Many barristers prefer to work with
instructions from
solicitors. What you need to do is weigh up
the pros and cons. Spending £10k is worthwhile when tens of thousands are
at stake, but it wouldn't be worthwhile when it's only a couple of
thousand.