I have seen several over the last 12 years or so. Like you say, I didn't
bother for a while when I was feeling settled, but after my stbx left in
July I felt the urge.
I saw a lady recommended by a friend for a
brief 10 minutes in August at a charity event. She immediately got that I
was going through a
separation, I picked a fox
and a snake and she said she could see my ex was trying to come back and I
mustn't trust him he was a liar (I totally knew this but in a way it was
nice to have it re-inforced, I drew strength from it). She also got my
grandads had both recently passed and knew one had passed from lung
cancer.
I had her round to my house in November and a few of us
had a full reading. She didn't remember me, but again got that I was going
through divorce, she said it was definitely the right thing and he'll
always be there for the kids but he wasn't a good husband. She got lots
and lots of things right about my life now, and said she could only see a
very positive future, and I will definitely get married again. I know to
take it with a pinch of salt but it gave me a lift at the time. She told
me I was a little psychic and I should trust the very vivid dreams I had
recently been having, they were my instincts guiding me - just that week I
had said to my sister and sister in law about all these strange dreams that
were to do with my ex and my kids - definitely a message there i think.
I am seeing another guy next Friday as a birthday treat. My sister
saw him last year and said he was brilliant. He doesn't read cards, just
you! I am looking forward to it and comparing it with the last one.
But ultimately I know I can't live my life by any of the stuff I'm
told and I don't - but I do find it very interesting.
Try and
get a recommendation from a friend if you can.