Can't believe it goes on.....

Further to my recent post of ex breaking into house and changing locks so I couldn't get in to the house I am paying for when I thought things couldn't get any worse I was, yet again very very wrong.

My ex left 3 and 1/2 years ago to live with gf. I took on all responsibilities, mortgage etc. while receiving no maintenance He had lots of debt which was taken into account in separation agreement(50/50). The matrimonial home has been for sale for a year. He will receive all cash from sale and I will keep my pension. I know I have said this before. The children(2) and I had to move out of the house to a rental 6 months ago to be near my mum even though I was tied in to paying the joint mortgage. It has been a struggle but it was my choice to move out so I budgeted.

Now to my disbelief I receive an email from ex saying I have to move the rest of my things out in an hours slot in 2 days time as he and his girlfriend are moving in to our 5 bedroom home. I am still obliged to pay the mortgage. Can you believe it? Funny this coincides with the CSA finally catching up with him and taking 30% of his wages.

Somewhere along the lines I think I went somewhere wrong

I wish I could get some advice so I am not paying for the house the children and I live in AND the house he is living in!

I am in a similar situation. I am separated and live with brother, while she lives in house with kids. As well as child support and my own rent, I was expected to pay the mortgage as well. As we were in advance on the mortgage, I was able to put on hold mortgage payments ( interest still accrued). If he is getting all proceeds from sale of house, I don't see any problem in you not paying any mortgage payments especially when that money could be used for the benefit and welfare of the children.

Unfortunately he won't pay the mortgage payments so I am stuck as I do not want a bad credit record. I am just devastated the house market is so poor as we have now had to drop the price yet again which means I will have to go into debt to pay him off as the equity in the house won't equal my pension(which he didn't want) - so much for a clean break in Scottish law - the adulterer gets a large cash sum to buy home with GF and PWC in debt and will have to be in rented accommodation with children for rest of life. Grrrrrrrrrr! Don't get me wrong I am not bitter just peeved off