My daughter is an adult but her father told her such awful lies about me. I
didn't know what to do so I wrote her a long letter with the facts then
left it. Told her that I loved her and would always be there for her no
matter what.She sent a few horrid texts but I just rose above them. I was
so hurt, I couldn't possibly explain the depth of it but I just kept
quiet.
One day I bumped into her at the
FMH when I was calling in to get some belongings. She
came straight ovet to me and gave me the lovliest hug ever. We have never
talked about it, she is fed up with it all as her father will not leave her
alone but the other day she phoned and asked me to tell her if something
her father has saying was true or just lies!
So, I have been
lucky and she has seen for herself that he is a blatant liar without me
even saying anything. This whole divorce experience has taught me that
sometimes it is better just to sit back and DO NOTHING. We still have weeks
when she doesn't
contact me much and she is
a little offish with me but I just leave her be and for us it works. Hope
this helps someone in a sililar situation.
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