This is where it all starts to get complicated so I will try to be as brief
as possible.
He is now 56 and I am 49. We were married for 26 years.
We have one son who is 24 and lives in a property in cornwall which was
left jointly to me and my ex by his parents. Our son pays him rent from
which I dont receive a penny!! He now lives with his new partner in what
was a joint tenancy council property. His new partner has m.s and he
receives carers allowance for her. I am in private rented accomodation. I
only work part time as my injuries prevent me from working fulltime unless
I find my 'ideal' job. There are no
pensions involved. There are a large number of
debts to be paid off within the marriage. My proposals were to sell the
property in cornwall and I would pay off the debt from my half (our son is
also entitled to ten grand from the sale of the house)and forget the rent
he has received. I just want a line drawn under it. He wants me to sign the
house over to him and he will take on fifty grand of the debt and leave my
compensation alone. The house is only worth around 130 grand now. There is
more to this story but this is the basics. Also my compensation should be
paid out in the next few months as it is just being finalised and yes a
large part will be to compensate me for being unable to work so many hours
etc and for my needs as I get older