Hi, my partner is just starting to go through the divorce process. He was
married for 3 years to someone who already had two children. They were
together a total of 12 years before the marriage ended. The step children
are 16 and 14. My partner was the sole provider for the family as his ex
wife has never worked. They both live in rented accomodation and my
partner has taken on 4 credit card debts totalling over £20k. He also has
an overdraft of £1500 on their previous joint account. He does have a
daughter of his own who he pays maintenance to.
Our main
concerns are:
1. His ex wife is asking for maintenance for her two
children. Their natural father has never paid any maintenance, as the
ex-wife has never asked him to. The natural father has attempted to make
contact with the children
although they didn't want to see him. Will my partner have to pay anything
towards her children? He has been paying £200 per month for the three
months prior to xmas to help out with her buying xmas presents, but he
really couldn't afford to do this and is now going to reduce the payment to
£100 per month which will be pocket money for the step children.
2.
Will my partner's ex-wife have any claim on his pension (valued at £15k and
currently on hold as he cannot afford to pay anything into it)
3. Will
my earnings be taken into account at all?
I could really
appreciate your advice!
Thanks