Ive done it.

Well...

I sat him done yesterday and told him I knew about his OW and that I didn't love him and our marriage was over, I told him I was leaving and took my rings off and gave them too him...

he cried, screamed and shouted... I didn't.

I know this is only the beginning but I feel great?! is that horrible, I even slept for 12 hours!

Those who know me know I usually only sleep about 4 a night,

I feel like a huge weight has been lifted and today is the first day of the rest of my life...

I also wanted to say thank you, for all the advice from my Wikichat friends, I honestly dont know what id do without you all... youve totally become my support network. Especially those I talk to on the phone, you know who you are, Thank you x

love you all x x x

That took a lot of courage. He made the decision when he decided to have an affair. Now you've made yours.

You know we're here and will support you all the way.

Big hug!!!

Mitchum x

I felt the same way when I finally left my stbx. You will go down occasionally but it really is the first day of the new life - you can do whatever you want to, no more compromises. Telling you to enjoy it seems somehow wrong, but you know what I mean.

Big hugs to you Star ((()))
Your life can only go upwards now x

Well done.

You aren't horrible, you slept well because you know you've made the right decision.

I felt very surprised to find I was overwhelmed with relief when my ex and I decided to separate.

I will warn you, you may find mixed feelings and wondering about if you are doing the right thing may hit you later, even though you are doing the right thing. Hang on to this thought, it will help.

Well done you ((((())))) big hug for the courage you have shown in making that decision. Onward and upwards now girl xxx
Dakota

Well done Star, glad you are feeling better.

Lots of Love

Milli xx