I just don't understand

Hi Lozzsa,

I had to reply when I read your post because I know EXACTLY what you mean.

My ex left me 3 years ago for the person he is now shacked up with in what was our MH (rather him than me).

He has always & still makes comments about how much he loves me, how much he misses me etc. I honestly think he feels that the door is still open on our relationship - he is completely deluded about this.

Like you I feel sad that my marriage came to an end because of his selfishness but also like you the thought of us being back together is less than appealing. I know I had come to the end of the road when the thought of sleeping with him made me feel... well...

I actually feel sorry for him on occasion because he's stitched himself up a kipper with the ow but never have I felt guilty. He ended the marriage - not me & it's his problem that the grass has turned out to be covered in dog poo.

Never feel guilty Lozzsa, ever.

Dazed. x

Dazed - like you the thought of having sex with my ex husband makes me want to vomit!

made me laugh out loud sillywoman. :-D

Thanks Dazed, you are totally right. Every time he says but I thought we'd get back together, we could have got through this but you won't try, I am amazed by his arrogance.

And to be honest, just the thought of sex with him quite makes me feel like puking too!

Well, perhaps if he says it again, remind him that if he had kept it in his pants to begin with rather than sh*g some undesirable ta*t, then you wouldn't even be having the conversation.

Yep, their arrogance is astounding.

LOL! But if I said that then he'd start with the, but I didn't, it was only a few texts I didn't really do anything!! Then we're back on that circle again!! I wish he would just have the kids when he's meant to and leave me alone otherwise, I suppose eventually he will.

You've given me a laugh this afternoon anyway so thanks x

My used to say "take a leap of faith" and "draw a line under the sand" - every flipping time, and I did! Until this last time!