Marshy_
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already divorced
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Re:Living On My Own - Extremely Difficult 1 Year, 11 Months ago
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Mitchum wrote:
I've been
on my own for a month now and although wakening up here this morning feels
strange and some aspects of being alone are scary, it truly is better to be
alone than with someone who treated me with contempt and in the end, as
though I was the one who'd had the affairs and done something horrible to
him.
Hi Mitch. It is scary at 1st. But you do get used to
it and there are upsides. I dont think I could live with someone now. I
think thats scary lol. Sat here on a Saturday morning doing a bit of
overtime and waiting for the washing to finish is great. There is nothing
like total control over yr own life.
I dont know why people that
cheat blame the innocent party. I think it could be guilt. They feel so
awful as to what they have done and of course they cant blame themselves to
they blame shift. They had the affair becuase of you. U made them do it.
Thats total cock.
The look in his eyes,
the contempt in the tone of his voice and walking past each other as though
the last 21 years hadn't happened was heartbreaking. Athough I'd loved him
unconditionally I couldn't take any more of living with such venom because
I got in the way of what he wanted to do.
M xx
Your
in the way now. Thats it. Some people are totaly ruthless. Its a ruthless
world we live in. And when someone dont fit the slot they are gone. My bad
for thinking something forever.
I had to get out. After 11
months of trying to sort out my situation and find somewhere to live I
went. That was the best day of my life and my life changed in 24 hours. C.
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