If you are in a position to submit a bundle then you should do so as
obviously you need documents to be able to argue this case and the court
will need documents to be able to make a judgment upon it.
Write
a letter to his
solicitors asking them for a copy of the
bundle they will be submitting and then put that in your bundle as evidence
that you are attempting negotiations.
It is a somewhat
contentious issue so you do need to tread carefully but there is no merit
in putting in an offer to another litigant and then marking the offer as
"without prejudice" in the belief that this will protect you from
disclosure of the offer from the other side when the offer is most
definately prejudiced and without prejudice is in an attempt to stop your
dishonestly being revealed to the court.
An obvious example
would be that someone sends you a death threat or other threat of harm and
then marks it without prejudice in an attempt to stop the threat being
admissible during prosecution proceedings.
So, if I were you I
would put in your skeleton argument that you received via solitiors an
offer which was obviously not in accordance with protocol but do not
disclose the contents of the offer in your argument and do not put the
without prejudice offer in your bundle to court - BUT DO take the offer to
court with you if this gets that far and in your summing up ask the judge
if he/she would look at it and consider it in their judgment.
You are going to have to make up your mind what you want to do regarding
the forgeign properties and alot of this is going to depend on how much
disclosure and documents you have in your possession regarding it.
I think it is also a bit tricky as it falls outside marital assets as
they are non marital assets and assets aquired by the sounds of it as a
result of your partnership in purchase after divorce.
There is
still time for you to put another offer to the other side which you can say
is open until the day you go to court but BEFORE entry into the court and
mark your offer as such.
As long as your offer is genuine and
made in good faith to settle then you should not be penalised for this and
also it may concentrate both your ex-s and his legal teams mind with regard
to costs in all of this.
Make sure that you take the schedule of
costs from the previous advisers and also in your argument make sure you
point out the advice of your previous advisers in relation to the "without
prejudice" offer and any other issues that you believe relevant (statement
of issues - which is basically the issues you feel relevant both in terms
of your conduct and also his conduct).
Hope this helps.