Hi ...
Wonder if I can call upon the collective wisdom of the
good folks on this forum, please ?
Brief outline ... had a trial
scheduled for 13th Jan (last Friday) after an unsuccessful FDR and FH.
Unfortunately, I have a 26 year history of depressive illness and
the past couple of months have been particularly difficult. I have some
real good days, some average days and some really, REALLY bad days.
Just before Christmas, I had to go to the GP and was medicated. I
contacted the Court and asked how I requested an
adjournment (until I was in a place, mentally, where I
could 'perform' and produce coherent thoughts, at least (I was
self-representing)!). They came back and said they needed a formal request
for adjournment and medical evidence in support, outlining what I was being
treated for, the treatment itself and prognosis.
My GP is a
German national and went home for Christmas and New Year. Her first day
back at work was 9th January. I saw her that day and asked for said medical
evidence and she arranged for a letter to be produced. Unfortunately, it
wasn't available on the Wednesday (11th January) but I managed to have it
picked up on Thursday 12th January first thing and delivered to the Court
Office.
Stupidly, I believed the Court would
contact me in due course
with a relisted trial date, having provided what they asked for ... but
actually, they decided to email me (pretty clever, as I've been waiting
until yesterday to have the Internet installed into the property) - and
tell me that "the medical evidence doesn't say he can't attend. Request to
adjourn refused. Hearing to proceed" ... which it did, the following day,
without me there !!!
Interestingly, when I actually got to pick
up my email yesterday, there was one from my ex-wife's solicitor, timed at
12:27pm, thanking me for letting them know I'd requested an adjournment but
that the Court had advised the Hearing would be going ahead ... and yet the
Court didn't email me until 2:57pm that afternoon to notify me !!
Anyhow, long story short, the Hearing went ahead, the Court awarded her
the house, I get half the equity and have to pick up 50% of the costs.
My gripe is not the decision of the Hearing - it is what it is and
I've read enough to know it's not worth appealing against that - but the
decision not to adjourn in the first place ! I provided exactly what the
Court asked for; had they made it clear they also required a statement of
my capacity to attend, I'd have made sure they got that too.
However, I feel like I've been completely denied the opportunity to put
across my side of the argument, challenge some of the outright lies my ex
has fed the Court (and which I have evidence to prove) and have been
summarily 'stuffed' - through poor timing, rubbish requests and a complete
disregard for personal circumstances.
I know it's a kind of "you
pays your money, you takes your choice" situation but, on balance, do you
reckon I should
appeal ? Or just swallow the whole thing and accept it
gracefully ?
I'd be grateful for your thoughts please, folks
(and yes, today IS a good day !!)
Guy