in desperate need of help

My partner and I split up 6months ago but have been living under the same roof ever since with our kids. It's not ideal but financially it's all we can do after trying and failing to sell the house. The kids are not suffering and are both doing well at an excellent top offsted school 5 minutes away. The trouble is my partner has now decided she has had enough and wants to up and move 200 miles away with the kids. She has also told me that she wants all of the money from the sale of the house whn it goes through so she can be mortgage free. None of it is definite yet but she says if I don't agree to her terms she will definiotely move and make access to my kids limited.
She will be moving to her mums (who is my mortal enemy) and I think if this happens my chances of seeing much of my kids will be smashed.
I have no money and a terrible job with limited income. She says, as she hasn't got a job here her chances might be greater after a move, so they won't be financialy better off until or even if she gets one. She will also be leaving her mother to care for the children while she goes into full time work.

I don't know what to do it will break me if this happens.Can anyone advise me.

greenmonkey,

Welcome to wiki but so sorry you find yourself here.

You refer to your partner. Are you married? It is important because the advice you get re finances will be different.

Hopeful other peeps who know a lot more about child contact issues than I do will give you advice about the children question. How old are they?

Hadenoughnow

Thankyou for the reply. The kids are 5 and 8. We are not married but the house we own is in both of our names.