i have been married for 21 years , there is about 4 years leaft on the
mortgage payments . my 2 boys are 7 and 14 . she now has a boyfriend living
with her . the decree
nisi will be declared on the 30th of January. the boys
will live with her at the house . im not sure on what savings we have as
she done all the financial side she worked in a bank . my youngest said to
me last night that while they where on holiday last year there mum said
about having a step dad so i dont know if they are going to or planning to
be married . i have sent her the
consent order fact finder form , i am also in a
realtion ship and live with her at the weekends and i pay rent during the
week . thanks for any advice or help