Hi I really do think a lot of the women here miss the point about the CSA
here.
The system is flawed and should be abolished. Previous to
this she never worked or didnt contribute a penny to housing costs etc. My
Ex left took a large pay out a car that I signed over and used to pay 500 a
month for my 3 year old child. This seemed a reasonable amount for a 3
year old child and as she was working still allowed her to get her hair and
nails done on a biweekly basis.
The relationship was good
however access was limited to one quick meal through the week one week and
then one night every other Saturday. This still isnt acceptable to me
however things were working so I was willing to take it from there (Even
though her mum baby sat and was round there almost every night)
Some time this week a letter arrives as she had submitted my lTD company
accounts to the CSA purely out of greed and that I have now have to pay 660
for the privilege. This could be reduced to the amount I was paying by
having my daughter over night for two nights a week as I had been
suggesting.
The thing that now makes me sick is that I have got
where I have got simply through hard work and determination but now the CSA
want to penalise me for doing so. If this amount is paid my Ex would be
earning more than myself for doing nothing at all and I still dont get the
access required to build a proper relationship with my daughter.
As a result of this I now have to pay to take the ex to court to get
access agreed and fight the CSA about my earnings. There are lots of loop
holes out the like opening a company and being the smallest shareholder
thus not being in control of dividends payments. Leasing a car through the
company, increasing
pensions, paying new partner a wage for
services rendered ;0) but why should I have to because of one persons
greed.
To be honest I pity the majority of fathers who have a
good job and receive a good wage being dealt with by the CSA. The system is
flawed and honest paying Dads who have limited access are suffering.