Read some of my daughters nursery reports today which made me upset. She
was and still is an adorable little girl with a huge heart and sensitive
soul. When I split up from her mother, she was 3 and her mother did
everything in her power to stop me from seeing her. She is quite frankly an
vindictive and spiteful women who uses her children as weapons, she doesnt
work and doesnt care... except for the
benefits she recieves! I have
awful memories of my daughter clinging to me whilst being dragged away by
her. Five years on and l still do not know why she has tried to destroy my
life. Still in proceedings I am coming up to my second final hearing and,
over the past 6 years I have been accused of many things resulting in not
seeing my daughter for many months. Nothing I was accused of was true,
despite this I have had a medical and psychiatric report (paid from legal
aid) the only thing I did was go to my doctor and he prescribed me a course
of antidepressants for the stress I was under. I have worked since I left
school with no breaks yet these
allegations have caused so much trouble. My point of this is... In my
experience as a father I have learnt to show no weakness as this can be
used against you. There are many great dads who find it too stressful and I
can understand why, but my belief is that justice will eventually prevail
and I will keep fighting. I have a strong case and a good
barrister and will let you know how things go but in
light of the past 5 years I know anything can happen!
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