Hi Fiona,
The basic crux of my argument is that:
Son
has been staying with me for well over 5 years now (extended alternate
weekends and midweek
contact and his main summer
hols i.e. week in X-mas, Easter and 2 in summer plus the fact that I have
been keeping him for weeks at a time when mum has struggled with childcare
arrangements. There is also the fact that there are no welfare concerns
and never have been.
My argument is the fact that contact had long
been established and he is now living with me as I have been taking him to
school, putting him to bed, making
breakfast, helping with home work, taking him on short breaks, he’s been
spending time with family members etc in other words all the duties that
his mother has been carrying out with him and would like an order to
recognise this fact and that he does indeed have two homes, albeit lives
with mother that little bit more.
There are no specific
case law which apply to my case but would like
to make reference to the fact that the various case laws, I have been
looking at all seem to highlight decisions taken by judges to grant SR to
reflect the reality of the way children live their lives with both parents
and thus in my case should recognise he does indeed have two homes. I.e.
Case law: Re A, D v D & Re: C
The other issue I have is in
relation to mother highlighting animosity and lack of communication between
us both. The same question was asked by the
cafcass officer during our initial meeting and she
wondered how we would communicate with each other during SR, as we had been
failing to do this for years now. Thus would have liked to make reference
to case laws where judges seem to underline the fact that SR can be
achieved even when there is animosity between parents and no exceptional
circumstances have got to be provided (Case law: A v A, Re K, Re W). In
some cases parental hostility could be alleviated as per: A Father and a
Mother v Their Two Children (B and C) (2004) EWHC 142 (FAM) but am really
struggling to find anything on this case and what it was technically all
about.