I have spoken to the csa but they have said because I am been paying them
and are on their records as the father there is nothing they can do without
evidence from a DNA test, but I have to arrange it myself.
I
said I would refuse to pay until it is sorted but they said they would just
take it straight from my wages as they have all my emloyeers details.
I was always unsure about me being the parent and she has spoken to
my brothers girlfriend in confidence saying that she was only 80% sure, and
the other guy has known for a long time he could be the father. She also
refused a DNA test when he was born, and I suppose I was tales into being
her dad. If I had
contact with her I doubt
I'd even have brought it up, but as I have never really had
contact, and nit seen her
since septber I really don't want to pay for the next 16 years if she isn't
mine.
I just need to know what forms I need to fill in to submit
to the county court.