How do i approach my ex with my growing concerns that her standard of care she is giving towards my children is slowly slipping downhill? I have a feeling this is due to her being depressed but as much as i try to be as supportive as possible i really am getting quite angry about it also, she seems to think i''m being too involved and i put her down all the time but she does''nt take my concerns seriously anyway. I spoke with a professional about my concerns from the NSPCC whom say that it does sound like she needs help and i''d like to if i knew she''d heed the advice but i have a

I am more than a little scared of this one. It was June 20, 2011 when I had my surgery and found out the lump in the left side of my neck was cancer. Surgery was awful and radiation was even worse. I got through it though and showed myself I am a heck of a lot stronger than I ever knew.

I have a really similar lump on the right side of my neck now. It feels the same so I am worried. I''ve made an appointment to have it checked out. I don''t hide from these things. But I am scared. I really do not want to do surgery and radiation again. For those of you who have done this - you know what I

Wow, that was a very hard day. More arguments with my wife. I need to stop that. It's like neither of us can take the last step to divorce. I have a lawyer appointment early next week so I'll get that going. She was going on about how all she wanted me to do during this whole time was "man up and fight for her". So I actually said I would if she would commit to no more contact with her ex-lover. She would not do that. So it became an idiotic discussion after that. A friend said it best "Why did you engage her in that discussion". I guess because I am an idiot. I got to hear another zinger as