Well the email popped in to my inbox at work today. Thought it would be in relation to sorting out the house etc. No he told me that he has met someone and wanted to let me know - in case I bump in to them when out and about. Feel absolutely distraught. Didn't think it would so hard. I want so much to be stronger than this. I was sitting in work when I had the message and couldn't even react in a room full of people. Once again I feel embarrassed and humiliated. How can he just move on so quickly I don't understand anything anymore. What is the point of being a nice person in life

Can anyone help. I have been married for 7 years to a man who had lost it all to divorce 2 years before I met him. We have built our lives back up in excess of what he had with his 1st wife, but because she is disabled he pays her spousal maintenance. They divorced over 11years ago and since our marriage this is the 3rd time she has applied for variation. Each time we provide the previous year of financial information and then ongoing for approx a year, this means our financials have been totally visible to her for just about our entire marriage. She counts my income and assetts as his and

Hi all I have somewhat prematurely updated my status to divorced to reflect the fact that I got my decree nisi two weeks ago, based on my ex-husband's adultery. Given that I didn't want to get divorced straight away, I am not sure quite what to make of it all. Having read and worried about some of the stories that I had read on Wikivorce, I almost feel lucky that I have come through the process somewhat unscathed (at least in the financial sense!) It seems that I unwittingly played a blinder by point blank refusing to divorce when I first heard of the affair - this was enough to