well ITs palm tree has finally gone, got home from work this afternoon thought id attempt it again, no chance, so waited for my son to come home from school, so 2 1/2 hours later, 4 cups of tea, one broken garden fork, one large hole in my garden, its finally gone, i can now look out onto my garden and see no trace of IT, (cant see ITs crap in the loft, weekend job that one) all gone, no doubt ill get a text in maybe a years time that IT wants it back, but tough. and treated myself today to a sparkly new bucket and sponge !! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I finally completed my first marathon today in a world record time of 3 hrs 46 mins (its a world record for me) running around the beautiful Lake Windermere..... I should feel euphoric but I don''t, why?????? Is it because of the harrowing events of the past 18 mths have made seemingly everything mundane? Is it because the mother of children was not there cheering me on with open arms at the end? Is it because today is hopefully a watershed and I hope to now start moving fwd with my life with my 2 wonderful children on our own resigned to the fact that is how its going to be? She does not

Hi all Been a while sinced i came on here but alot has happened in that time, firstly i''m finally divorced and will be getting the FH back, all i''ve had to do is cover the debt incurred in the marriage which i can deal with happily. Enjoying the time i get with the kids and doing great things, works going well and things are lloking rosy. Found that the old heartstrings are working after a lady i met on a works training course had me in awe of her, i have put it about abit i''ll be honest but the feelings she congured in me i have not had in many years and has led me to think i may