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Jan 01
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How many of us have thought back to 1st jan 2000? What were we doing? What plans we had then?
Some of the plans will have come to fruition. We took our family to Florida and had the best 3 weeks of our life! No regrets there!
BUT the future is ours now to do what we want with it. Yes there are limitations to what we can achieve in some cases BUT we have CHOICES. We can choose to move on and have the best life possible. set some realistic goals and achieve them. i did and all the goals I set myself so far I have achieved so now i have set some more!
I don't find any of this easy and i take a long time to heal but i am moving forward all the time. if i have a down moment I remember the bad times and am so glad that the person my stbx now is, he is out of my life!
A BIG thank you to everyone at wiki who has helped me through some bad days and celebrated with me when i have reached one of my goals. happy new year to you all and a very happy decade too. How do we want to remember this year when we toast the end of 2010? Go for it!
Jacki xxxx
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robinson25
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| January 01, 2010 | ||
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hi jackie , it is so good to hear you feeling so positive. ten years ago i had just moved into this house and we had a street party for the millenium. i was on my own that night as oh was working in a factory at the time. i know the year ahead is going to be difficult for me but by this time next year i hope to be in a better place with my life more sorted. i also would like to thank everyone on this sight for past and for future help. Life is what we make it, and i am determined to do the best i can for the kids and me to have a good life. it is so easy to go into the depths of despair but i will not let my oh drive me to that.positive positive thinking.Setting goals is a good idea , i think i might follow your example on that one. x | |
JackieH
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| January 01, 2010 | ||
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LOL, I was in need of my own pep talk this morning! I was up all night with the puppy who is determined to remoe every dressing on her cut pad! All 'spare' money now gone to the vet and tired from lack of sleep! A beautiful day when I should be out walking the dogs, ha ha. What a difference a few hours makes!!!!More positie thinking needed! | |
soozni
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| January 03, 2010 | ||
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I met my husband, March 2001, just after the start of the new millenium, I thought, new millenium, new man, new start, happy days, less than 10 years later, and here I am, alone and trying to start again, but I'm glad I'm starting again and simply not facing another 10 years with a miserable, empty, shallow, egotistical, lying, self centered a-hole!! I don't say these things out of bitterness or a desire to 'get back' at my stbx, its the truth, I'm so much better off without him leaching and draining every ounce of generosity I have to give. So for the next decade, I'm looking forward to seeing whats in store for me, more heartache, perhaps, but I'm willing to try! | |
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