Why do I put myself in the position to be sad? My OH asked me to help him complete some documents for work as they have all been put under nptice of redundancy, and I of course said yes, but on my terms not his. I don't want him to be without a job so anything I can do to help I will. He has been here most of the afternoon and we have had a lovely time together I have helped him with the skills audit and he has gone home happy with what we have achieved. So why do I feel so bloody sad, why am I sat with tears in my eyes for a man who doesn't want or deserve me, and one who I thought I

I have had the most fantastic week off, have laughed,loved and shared with so many people that are close to me, and feel like I am in a "moving on" frame of mind. This week has seen me not sitting round being all woe is me and pining for my husband. I have been busy not because I have needed to be (to stop moping) but because I have wanted to be as I have been making plans for me and my home. Saturday I fitted some solid wood blinds on the back of the house so I don't feel so exposed. I also went out and bought some new bedroom furniture which will be delivered in 2 weeks. I also

So tonight I sent a FB message to my circle of friends some knew what had happened other knew nothing, but it felt right to tell them en masse. I hope you dont mind me sharing what I sent them, I feel like I have turned another corner. Apologies to those who are already in the loop but I just thought it was easier to send an en masse message to all my close friends - yes P that does include you!!! :) I am just messaging you to let you know that D and I have seperated, it happened last year and although I am very sad at the end of my marriage I am doing ok. Things started to go wrong after mum