Well it's been a week now since my wife told me IT'S OVER and there's no more trying to work things out, well it's been three mths that we've been working at it and six to eight mths for her. Basicly I've spent a week crying thinking what am I going to do, why has she done this, what's wrong with me, had I done anything, why, why, why. We had a chat last night and I told her how hard I was finding it to let our marriage go, I sort of knew in the back of my mind that this would happen. The kids have accepted whatever happens, happens, I think because they haven't seen any phisycal change as

I don't know what to do anymore, don't know where to turn. My wife of 11 years told me last Nov she didn't love me anymore as a husband. A friend yes lover no ok after lots of chats and tears we came to a decision to go to marrage councelling. I've tried and done everything, I don't argue or hit her ever I sort the kids out do the housework, dinner even though I work myself I buy her flowers now and then, she comes home from work there's a bath run ready for her that's all she has to do is relax. Now last weekend she tells my in her words "I don't think it's going to work" how does she know