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Mar 01
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Weird week, haven't seen my wife much or heard from her much this week. Still heard nothing about the divorce, so still in limbo.
My wife did invite me down to eat with her last Thursday, to talk about the children's parents' evenings, which was nice - it was lovely to spend some time with her, but I'm still not sure how I should be with her after she called me false before.
She's just taken our two youngest children to her house for a couple of hours - my eldest isout for a walk with his girlfriend, so the house is empty but for me. She looked lovely when she just came, but wasn't very friendly - she was more pleasant yesterday
After she left I just felt an ache in my chest, and started to cry. Such a lovely day and feel so very low at the moment. Have been trying to keep myself occupied, but I'm always thinking about her and our marriage. I know I need to be strong, but feel so very weak, low and pointless at the moment.
My job is also under threat, and the hours I'm working to pick my daughter up from school are causing problems in the department, so I need to sort something out there too. Everything just seems to be weighing down on me, I feel completely crushed and not sure I'll get through this.
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smurfy1973
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| March 01, 2009 | ||
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You will get through this. You are not alone. Lean on your friends, family and continue writing here. It is an emotional rollercoaster. ((((u)))) x |
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Claymic78
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Im sorry to hear that you are struggling David. Feelings are not easy to just remove. you love ur wife. u have loved ur wife for long...dont expect them to just disappear. but i still tell you that u will get through it and things will get easier. take care of urself claudette x |
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messedupdotcom
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Keep your strength up, one step at a time, things will get better, you will feel better. you just need to give yourself time. Do something for yourself every day. Reward yourself for getting through the day. It helps me, even if it's just a packet of Haribo, yum yum. | |
siriusB
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| March 01, 2009 | ||
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Hi David, I know it's all very recent for you and is still sinking in. Try and deal with the practical things - see if a family member or neighbour could look after your child a couple of times after school, and have a chat to your Union or HR department about your situation; you may be able to get some flexibility regarding work there. That ache when we see a loved one who doesn't want to be with us anymore is terrible - and although it will take a long long time it will lessen. Dont be too hard on yourself - just take each moment as it comes and if it gets tough come into the chat room at wiki. x |
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Butterfly369
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bless you, caring and kind thoughts are with you, i have similar feelings and emotions that come to the surface, at strange times but for totally different reasons. Do not be afraid to ask for help and please look after your health. Rainbow healing light and smiles sent  |
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