I was expecting this any day and was curious about how I would feel after two and a half years separated. Would I be exhilerated? Would I feel relieved? Would I feel any sadness for the 19 years of a loving relationhip legally ended?

I felt GREAT! Joyful and relieved. Not a speck of sadness or regret! This is nearly the end of a nightmare (just the house to sell now). All the grieving and tears done to death. All cried out I think. The kids are so pleased for me too.

I was on a course today and at coffee break  the text came from my daughter who had been watching the post for me. I was jumping

Well apparently you can be matched with your 'ideal' partner by matching your character, intellect and values!

They should know how easily people change their character and values - as easily as changing their

How many of us have thought back to 1st jan 2000? What were we doing? What plans we had then?

Some of the plans will have come to fruition. We took our family to Florida and had the best 3 weeks of our life! No regrets there!

BUT the future is ours now to do what we want with it. Yes there are limitations to what we can achieve in some cases BUT we have CHOICES. We can choose to move on and have the best life possible. set some realistic goals and achieve them. i did and all the goals I set myself so far I have achieved so now i have set some more!

I don't find any of this easy and i take a long