Does it get any easier ? I guess so, even the pain of her affair seems less vivid now or is that you just get used to the new situation whatever it may be and it becomes "normal". I first wrote on here in March, when my wife had finally admitted to having an affair and was in love and wanted to move out and into her new life etc etc. 

Well, here we are 3 months further on. The affair is over, he ran back to his ex, and we are left trying to sort the mess out. I've tried so hard to get things back on track, maybe too hard, but she seems to be lost in this fantasy world that she had and just

Hi everyone, well to intro, I have been separated for about 3 months now. Stbx has bought himself a very expensive new build flat, cleared out the investments, and yet still resides at the fmh!

I am camped out in my sons old room, very uncomfortable, but hey, Ive had worse times in my life.Anyway the point of all this si Mediation, thats what I wanted to have a bit of a rant about. I felt that it was entirely innapropriate, but was advised to attend the assesment appointment, which I had to do with him!

We duly showed up, only to feel as though I was on trial, what were the reasons for