What irks me most is how selfish people can become during divorce and how little thought is given to the wellbeing of the children of the marriage.  Spouses may become to resent and even hate each other, but children should never have to witness or even slightly pick up on that.  They should not be deprived access to one parent because of selfishness, immaturity or as a punishment to the non resident parent.  The system at the moment fuels greed and bitterness, it does not provide emotional support for either spouse or the children.  And as one of the most stressful and emotionally draining

 

Went to estate agent to collect forms to start selling house.

Tried to cancel sky early but they went having it. I haven't switch on the TV since STBx has left. 

This afternoon, I rung my debt management company to let them know about my pending redunacy and options to not to go bankrupt. They came up with some good options and advice.

I then looked at my budgets and finace at the end of the year and found that I could survive with out going on the dole.

And with a bit of graft can have funds for a nice holiday next year with the boys.

I then went for a walk to think through what I had just

When your walking around and see dads playing with their kids, don't be sad that yours are not with you, be glad that there are fathers playing with their children and that they are happy and having fun.