Well we have just about agreed terms. A developer whats to buy the house and has the cash.

I could hold out for another £10k if the right buyer turns up in the next 6 weeks, but don't think that will be likely.

The court papers arrived today, haven't opened them.

So today first day with the boys, a quick trip to some letting agents but not much joy. The flat down the road which has been empty for months may have gone this morning.

Great after noon with the boys flying and chatting to mates. After tea we went for a walk, but I'm feely so lonely. even though the boys are hee with me, I'm feeling

Any advice, legal preferrable as I've had many conflicting opinions on the way to go.

History; ex is self employed and dictated terms of divorce down to who got the coasters! 6 months after 'absolute' given,  moved his partner in [free roof] so that she can provide her kids with her old roof for their own heads ie....to the detriment of providing properly for his own..

agreed to his terms of divorce [we're now 2.5yrs post divorce] and for last 15 months, give or take, he's paid about 25% reduced maintenance and additionally not paying the benefits direct to the kids due under the order due to

Hi

I am in desparate need of help as I justdo not know where to turn!

I have been on this site from the start of my nightmare and thought I had things under control but sadly its seems not!

Brief outline...........  18 yrs relationship..... 1 beautiful daughter now 17yrs old..... married in 2005 after rocky patches through the years. Sept 09 sbx left the house taking my daughter with her. Applied for occupation order and restraining order under false allegations. She then told my solicitor she found a place and was not going to pursue the order. 8 months later having struggled to manage to