It seems that the time to move on is coming to some of us at the same time.

I have had so much help from everyone on this site for which I will always be very grateful.

 I am finding that coming on hee now is making me doubt myself and my new relationship so I need to wean myself away from here.

 Good luck and loads of love to you all.

Brensham.xxx

I want to say good bye and not just disappear.  I have made two good friends here and I will keep in touch with them through email and Skype. 

I have been thinking for a while that I should wean myself off coming on here either to write blogs, read others, comment or go into Chat daily.  Originally I became a member to support others as I am further down the line.  But I know and this is very personal so don't get offended,  but this constant reminder of the separation makes me return to the pain over and over again and is obstructing my healing and moving on.

It is almost 2 years this June. 

As I mentioned in my last blog I have been struggling on how to tell my wife I've had enough. Things have been 'ok' for a week or two so it was hard to approach it. But as predicted my wife flipped again over nothing.

I'll try and be brief but give all the facts. I'd picked up my wife from work and taken her to a meeting in town. I drove home to a house full of builder ripping out the kitchen. The house is totally upsidedown and now a nice place stay during the day at the moment. My mate phoned up to invite us to a BBQ at the weekend and asked what I was up to as it was noisy. I told him and