Got an email from my solicitor this morning, my absolute was granted on 22 October. I am no longer married. I know I have a great future to look forward to, but cannot help feeling sad and upset, this is not what I wanted. Still, at least he is free to make the tart as unhappy as he made me.

Got to let it go now. Still waiting for news on the house, I think once that happens it will be easier to deal with the end of my marriage. This house is too full of memories, time to make some new

We were driving home from my husband's best friends wedding (4 hour drive home) and twenty minutes into the drive I decided to ask what has been going on all summer with him as he seemed distant.  He then told me he didn't think he loved me anymore, he did not want children, and he was taking a position (long term assignment) in Jakarta, Indonesia that could last anywhere from 1-5 years.  I was shocked as I thought we had a pretty good weekend overall visiting the in laws, seeing his friends at the wedding, etc...

 He had been having a mean streak all summer though.  Saying cruel and hurtful

To all that are still going through the s**t of this life

I know i have a long way to go yet but i will tell you all it's true life does get better as time go's by

Still got to get a divorce yet but to be honest will be glad when all over and done with just want to get it done.

My life has a lot of s**t to go yet but these days 10/11 mths from when she walked out on me i feel more posative about what my future has to hold for me

No matter what happens to any of you just relise its not the end but THE START of your life

And before you all think this guys found a new love in his life NOT SO

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