I have applied for the absolute but put the wrong payment on the cheque. E.Mailed court office to request it be returned for me to re-send. Hope that will be ok. I can't afford to pay twice! Why did I post it and THEN look at costs?

Anyway, Absolute stage is reached & consent order is being presented soon. All I need now is a miracle move into rented & I will be ready to begin again. ALONE! Well, except for my oldest girl who is coming to share the rent!!

I have got to get out of this 'still under the same roof' situation. He has gone along with everything I have asked & we are polite but

S2bx asked me last sat if he could come round for a few hours on christmas day. I said sorry you won't like this but no, you can have them boxing day though. he wasn't happy with this. that night after 11pm he phoned me, waking me up, to spitefully tell me he was now living with his girlfriend (has been since august) and if i wasn't home early on sunday (i was going to wiki haloween) he would introduce the boys to her and it would be my fault! this wasn't said in a nice way in fact he was very nasty about it.

I found the ow on facebook as her profile photo was of the pair of them. so i now