OK here goes - never done this blogging business before so bear with me! 2nd divorce here - 1st one was relatively painless. It involved a cheating husband of 5 years, no kids just a house. I paid him off £10K (£7K for equity, £3K for furnishings). Got together with current husband far too quickly - like immediately and put the house in joint names. Oh the stupid things you do when you are in love/lust! So 7 years down the line and one son (James 7 yrs) he has run off with the village slapper who is also married with 3 children. She gets a settlement of £120K and two of the kids live

Day 5 (written early day 6) Yesterday was my first full day back at work. Walked in trying to hold my head up high. Turns out the 2 other people I work with had both just split up with their partners this weekend as well! You couldn’t make this stuff up! I was shocked. One of them was maybe not a full on relationship but the other couple were as good as married. The office is not its normal self, but at least we all understand what each other is going through. In an effort to keep doing positive things I went to the gym last night for the first time in 2 years. That felt good. Felt like I

I have been married for 2 ½ years and my wife has had an affair for 4 months and has told me she doesn’t love me or feel any passion for me anymore, which hurts like mad, I still love her despite what she has done. She wants a 50/50 split of everything but when we met we both had our own house’s, She sold hers and the profit she got she used all of it to pay off her debts then moved into my house. I earn about 4 times her salary and have always made sure she had whatever she wanted along with my 15 year old step son. Before I came along they never had holidays etc and now we have sorry had