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Feb 02
2012
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I went back to work this week after a long break (Australian summer holidays). I think it was what I needed. The days have flown and I noticed that I haven't been feeling as sad or distraught. I have been taking Chinese herbal medicine. Maybe it's starting to kick in. This week things have become clearer to me too. I know that I am better off without him. I know that i will survive. I know that whatever happens I will always have ME. Went to yoga again and I loved it. Next week I am joining a choir. I'm absolutely cr@pp*&g my pants but It's something I've always wanted to do. I don't have a great voice and the only singing I ever do is in the shower or in the car. Yes, in private! I know I'll be nervous but I need to get out of my comfort zone and start living a little. I don't have a huge circle of friends and I'm hoping that this changes by getting out there. I like me time but I am beginning to get a little lonely.
Take care Wiki angels. Best wishes to you all xx
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Canuck425
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| Hey, congrats on joining a choir. I have thought about doing the exact same thing. I love to sing so maybe I will. Life does indeed go on and we get to choose how we're going to show up every day. I am so pleased to read you know you're going to be fine. Of course you will. I have learned through my journey that putting yourself out there for others to discover is so worth it. I have come from the no friends position and I'm changing it. We can do it! | ||
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Young again
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Freefalling that is FANTASTIC! You get out there and do what YOU want to do. Only by being yourself can you find out who you truly are and from that will flow the confidence you may not feeling at the moment. You will meet people and as time passes you will realise that you don't have to hide any part of yourself or pretend to be anyone you're not - that is true freedom, go for it! Best wishes! YA |
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Mitchum
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This is a very positive blog and good to read. It means you're healing. Is there an international wiki choir in the making here? Do you know the site Playing for Change, where the musicians in different countries play together? It's amazing; now I have visions of wikivorce members singing around the world in different time zones and seasons even! Keep going, you're making great progress. xx |
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patti.p
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Free, So, so glad that youre feeling better - and doing something that scares you is such a big step! Well done, you. Youre really doing well and it seems like there's a lot of positive steps youre focusing on. Keep it up, keep doing those things that allow you to show how amazing you are. And def keep up with yoga, it must be great to release those endorphins and to meet new people at the same time. Great to see such a positive blog! x |
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scaryclairie
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Sounds fantastic free - all good (and don't be worried if you have little hiccoughs that catch you out) - you are well and truly healing. The choir sounds great (I also looked for one - but it clashes with somethig my son does and is a wee way away - another time.) I did have half a thought to set up a Kareoke thing in the village hall - but where everybody sings along together - but these things can be hit or miss (Basicly I think it's a great idea for someone else to do!) For starters I don't have any kareoke equipment......anyway that's about me ..............and this is about you. I think you will love it, and the more we get out of our comfort zone the better we get at it....and the stronger we get. Singing is great for the endorpins too! Have a great time, and let us know how it goes. Count me in for the wiki choir.....'The Wiki Warbelers' do we think?.....tra la la la la! |
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